The Freakshow

Violence

2006-11-26T01:12:00.000+01:00

Just got home frome a night out. man i had one or two drinks two much! ended up chrashing botles and stuff. splintered glass all over the place.......dude, i think this time i had too much. doesn't happend too offent

or does it:-) haha....

I'm Moving

2006-11-07T16:08:00.000+01:00

Ok, so the blog is propably not gonna live allot longer...But i wanted to tell you this anyway;

I am moving away from opgang 15!

No kidding. Just signed up for an appartment with my girlfriend today & we are expecting to move sometime during the first half of 2007. It's just to a place here at skjoldhoej so im only gonna move 200 m away at most!

We are almost on top of the waiting list so it could happen as early as in january or february. Kinda scary really, but what the hell, we are doing it. Economically its gonna be the same as now & i can always move back to my dear nr 15 if everything screws up:-)

Edit: So much for taking it slow. haha...

Oh, and here's how it "looks";

Second time around

2006-10-29T12:59:00.000+01:00

So i'm back with Kristiane again. Allthough things was getting better day by day i didn't expect it to happen so soon. I'm not jumping up and down of happiness just yet though. I'm being calm about it and trying to take it slow this time. Don't wan't to repeat past stupidity. haha...

But i do have a good feeling about the whole thing. We both learned alot in the month we've been apart so chances of a better run seems higher now than ever. Well thats all for now. i'll get back to all the litle things i have to do today...

Bad planning

2006-10-27T14:05:00.000+02:00

I have the worst hangover ever and i need to be at dinner with my parrents & grandmother in Broenderslev, northenr jutland 6:30 this evening!

Think i should have thought it over twice before i decided to go drinking yesterday...

The future of this Blog

2006-10-23T12:26:00.000+02:00

I've rescently lost allot of interest in writing here, as you can see my last post was a week ago!

The reasons, oh they are various and many.

First of all i've been busy lately, mainly obsessing over my semi-ex girlfriend kristiane and turning down nice girls who hit on me when i go out. that's actualy true! Now that i'm not in a position to date other girls they flock around me. I wish they would do that when i'm available:-)

Secondly, allthough i'm satisfied with the amount of people visiting my blog, none of them comment and only a small percentage return more than a couple of times. I keep the blog because i want to discuss the things i do with other people so that's a big problem there.

Thirdly i can see that the more i write about personal stuff the easyer it is to google me. And really, i don't want all people i know to read this site or the things i write.

So nomatter what there will be some changes here in the future. I'm propably gonna remove a lot of info that links it to me and were i live. I might start another blog in danish instead, but that is a posability im not very fond of cause i know allot of international people who i partly started this blog for in the first place. And...i might just quit bloging at all.

Germany, Jutland & IKEA

2006-10-16T20:25:00.000+02:00

Had a very strange weekend...

Satuday morning a friend phoned me and said "let's go to Germany!" And so we did just 1 hour later. I aranged for some of my roommates to look after the cats (cause i'm not cruel to animals ya know) and so we drove down to Flensburg which is just on the other side of the border. We got there in 1,5 hours (there is 200 km from here so thats a new record for me) and took a look around in the city. Afterwards we bought some cheap sodas, beers and various other stuff and drove a little around the german countryside. Got back in the evening just to discover that an old friend from copenhagen of mine was visiting me without any notice!

Drove around to see different places in the vicinity of Aarhus the following days and ended with a trip to IKEA today. Bought some new linen and a nice new quilt (the cats peed on the old one!)

Yep, yet another weird weekend...And now less than 70 hours to getting rid of the little rascal cats...

Babysitting

2006-10-12T19:50:00.000+02:00

But luckily not a baby:-)

Nope, i am taking care of Kristianes two cats while she is in spain visiting a very good friend. Now your propably all thinking im crazy taking care of my ex's cats for a whole week!

And oh my god, it's horrible. I hate it, and they are driving me insane! But fact is, and i haven't told you this yet, that we havent really split up. at least not definitively. We are not together right now because of the psycologial issues she is having but things are getting better every day so we might work it out in a month or two.

So when she asked me if i could take care of them it really got me thinking. At first i said no but eventually gave in and did it. I mean, i really have no choice do i? If i want her back saying no too this would be stupid i think.

But that doesn't change that this is living hell! I'm simply not responsible enough to take care of other living beings.

I don't know, maybe i'm being an idiot or far too nice and she might just be using me....

Wednesday night drinking

2006-10-05T18:23:00.000+02:00

I am one of those people who need certain types of people to influence me to do stupid things. One of these people moved into our dorm a month ago. His name is Alex and he's from the latvian capital Riga. Among the stupid stuff We've been doing is riding on scooters on some very steep roads near Skjoldhøj, resultning in us ending in a bush. But last night we did the stupidest thing so far.

We got drunk, had a water gun war and went to a party, all on a wednesday night. As always it took some persuaing to get me to partisipate in the fun, but man we ended up having a great evening. Yep, single again but it seems to be yet another awesome semester at the Skjoldhøj dorm...

Don the male stripper

2006-10-02T19:35:00.000+02:00

Went to skjoldhøj bar this saturday too see some striptease. The add said that they'd open their dancefloor section and have a DJ until 5 AM, and since that sounded pretty cool i went. Now, the stripper that i was going there too see was MALE....and named DON. haha...

They also had a female stripper later that evening but i went mainly because of Don. Partly because i've heard about how bad he is and had to see for myself, and partly because the editor of our local paper has asked me to write a review on his show. I wasn't his first choice for doing the story but all the other guys he had asked thought it would ruin their reputation or something, and since i don't care about my reputation he asked me.

I'd wish i had a picture too show you guys, but let me just say this. Don is no chippendale! he's about 1.60 m and seems to have eaten a little too much fast food. very well, he has some mucles and a nice ass (thats what some girls told me) but overall looked far too average to be a stripper.

But the show was actually pretty good and his stripping skills were not that bad so i actually think he'd be worth seing, if your a girl that is. Since i haven't god that much experience with male strippers i looked at the mostly female crowd's reaction to the show to help me with my review, and i have to say that most of them seemed to enjoy what he was doing so i will give him an 8 out of 10.

Over...aaaaaand out

2006-09-26T20:59:00.000+02:00

Ok, so things didn't work out. I'm officially single again!

In a way i feel kinda relieved. i can now go to a bar, meet a girl, go home to her place, and sleep with her without any worries. I think i'll start by going downtown to play some pool with a friend tommorrow...

Things sometimes turn out different than you thought

2006-09-26T12:00:00.000+02:00

It's been 5 days since last time i posted here. I've been busy trying to get over my now ex-girfriend (yes she broke up with me thursday night) so i haven't really been in a state to write anything.

Today we are gonna have a talk about things. I want to get everything straight and she might give it another chance...but i'm not gonna bet on that too happen:-)

I will post about the outcome tonight (if it doesn't turn out good) or tommorow (if it turns out as i'm hoping)

The truth about a PUA

2006-09-21T10:41:00.000+02:00

9 months ago I read various books about seduction and the seduction community in general. This changed my world & I soon learned how to attract all the girls I could possibly want. The game fascinated me (it still does) & I was quickly driven into it. But about three months ago I met this beautiful intelligent girl, Kristiane. In the beginning I was reluctant to move forward and become a couple but we eventually did and we are now five days short of celebrating our two month anniversary. I Love her above all and hope to stay with her for a long, long time so I totally abandoned the community.

So far everything seems pretty good right?

Well, the truth is it isn’t. She is stressed about her school, work and also me, so for the time being she is taking a couple of days on her own. Well, if things screw up, it isn’t really my fault this time, but it made me realise this; I SUCK at relationships.

So what I understood I need to learn and what I think allot of PUA’s have yet to learn is how to have a genuine relationship. Cause deep down within even the most dedicated PUA’s want a real relationship I’m sure of that.

Meanwhile I’ll continue to work on my current relationship & becoming a better boyfriend.

For more info on the Pick up community read these wikipedia entries:

Seduction Community

Style (Neil Strauss)

Mystery

Tyler Durden

Learning to speak Russian: I

2006-09-18T11:18:00.000+02:00

I'm almost always working on at least 1 spare time project. This time it's gonna be to learn atleast a little bit of russian. A russian guy moved into my dorm and he's gonna stay here for over 3 years so i should be able to pick up something by then.

I got the idea saturday evening so my russian skills still suck pretty much. So far i learned various ways of offending people in russian. Here's a couple of samples of what i know so far;

Sosy hooy maya soochka

Tee preecrasna (this one is actually a compliment)

I'm not gonna give you the translation, so you have to ask someone russian if you wanna know the meaning of the above:-)

Ok, enough about that for now. I'll post about this again when there's been some progress on the project.

Flirting

2006-09-17T15:14:00.000+02:00

Yesterday i discussed the subject of flirting with a friend of mine but we never really got to a conclusion (the amount of beer we were drinking propably had a thing to say there). Anyway, we both have a girlfriend so we were discussing wether its allright to flirt when you have a girlfriend or not.

I almost always flirt with a girl if she attracts me and i never figured out why i do so. I Love my girlfriend and would never be unfaithfull but i somehow still have the need to flirt. It's most likely because i like when other people like or are attracted too me (who dosen't?) or maybe i'm just not used to my new lifestyle as a taken guy. I really don't know.

But nomatter the reasons, is it OK to flirt when you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?

Besides from this yesterday evening was pretty good . Celebrated our new exchange student Linda's birthday, had vegetarian food, met an old classmate at Skjoldhøj Bar, drank a whole lot of beers and went to bed at 4 AM. And i didn't even have the regular hangover this morning. Can you ask for more?...I dont think so!

Why i got no sleep last night

2006-09-15T16:12:00.000+02:00

My girlfriend got a new cat yesterday. And who would have thought getting a new one would cause so much trouble as it allready has.

You see, she allready has one kitten, & the first one is really going crazy on the new one leasving us with no sleep last night. I've been told that all the hissing is just a normal thing it does to show the newcomer that it is the leader or something like that but it's still pretty damn anoying if you ask me! So if anyone out there has any tips or ideas on how to get them to get along please let me know...

oh and by the way, even though i hate all the problems they are causing they still are very very cute and cudlly (when not together)

Here's a pic of another kitten who looks very similar to both the little terrorist's

James Morrison

2006-09-15T14:43:00.000+02:00

Just heard about this guy earlier today and man that's some great, relaxing music he's put out there. He's going to be the next breakthrough artist no question about that...

Myspace profile

Official Website

Horray for swings

2006-09-13T11:47:00.000+02:00

I really liked this post by Tynan, a guy who's blog i follow;

When I was younger, I loved playing on swings. My best friend Ryan and I would spend all of recess on the swings, making up new tricks and seeing who could jump further. Eventually it got to the point where ankles were being sprained and we had both perfected the backflip off the swing.

Now, many years later, I still love swinging despite encountering fewer opportunities to do it. One of the distinctive features at my new building is a large metal terrace hanging over the rooftop patio. Since moving in I’ve wanted to build a swing on it so that I could swing over the edge of the building.

I’m not sure why, but yesterday inspiration struck and I decided that it would be that day I built my swing. Evan and Jonah were with me. Evan was upset by the idea, worried that I might die. Jonah was also eager to swing, and helped me assure Evan that I did stuff like this all the time, and that I wouldn’t die. She wasn’t wholly convinced.

We arrived at Wal-Mart, the launching ground of many good schemes. We strode down the linoleum to the garden section, where the swings were.

“They’re outside. You can’t go there until 7am.”

Foiled!

Just kidding, I never get foiled. In fact, my resolve was even stronger. It wasn’t just a whim anymore, it was a challenge from the Wal Mart gods. Evan was cranky, probably because the prospect of me safely swinging was looking less likely. She suggested I wait until tomorrow.

I hate waiting until tomorrow, though. In a way I was glad there weren’t swings. I like having to be creative.

I zig zagged throught he aisles, looking for suitable swings. A woven rug looked promising, but had no way to attach the ropes to it. I finally found a boat bumper (you know those pill shaped things that make it so boats don’t hit the dock?) and decided it would be the seat of the swing.

The guy in the rope section was strange. He suggested a rope that was rated for 188lb. I weigh 140lb, and I guarantee you I weigh a lot more when swinging on a swing. Angered by our dissent, he left.

The other rope available was rated for 375lb. I figured that might be enough but didn’t remember enough Physics to really be sure. With some hesitation, I grabbed two 20′ lengths.

Then I caught sight of a beautiful thing. Nylon seatbelt-like tie down straps rated for 5000 pounds. Perfect. I bought one of those and another rated for 1000 as a backup.

We went home and got to work. The details of how we set it up are pretty boring, but in the end we made a fantastic swing out of the 5000lb strap and the bumper. It was even comfortable once I let the air out of the bumper.

As a safety we attached the 1000lb strap to a harness.

The first interesting thing I noticed is that if I was wearing the safety strap, it was no longer scary to stand on the edge of the building. I could lean forward over the edge with no fear at all. If I imagined I didn’t have the strap it got scary again.

I sat on the swing and kicked back. With a quick whoosh I was over the edge of the building looking two hundred feet down at the city below. It was magnificent. Jonah and I took turns riding the swing until it was time to go to sleep.

How cool is that? too bad i only live on 2nd floor:-)

Sequels, Prequels, and Remakes

2006-09-09T14:05:00.000+02:00

I am a big movie fan. And it's not that i dislike sequels, but is it just me or are hollywood making sequels to EVERYTHING these days or what? I loved movie series such as Rambo, Rocky & the Indiana Jones movies but come on, both Harrison ford & sylvester stalone are like 60 now. Why ruin something really great by making stupid sequels just to make money.

Here is a list of just some of the upcomming hollywood sequels;
Alien vs predator 2, Bean 2, Big Mommas house 2, Doctor dolittle 3, Evan Almighty (Bruce Almighty 2), Evil Dead 4, Fantastic Four 2, Freddy vs. Jason 2, The Grudge 2, Jurassic Park IV: The Extinction, Die hard 4, Mad Max 4, Madagascar 2, Old School 2, Police Academy 8, Saw III, Scary Movie 4, Scary Movie 5, Shrek 3, Sin City 2, Sin City 3, Spider-Man 3, Toy Story 3, The X-Files 2 and...X-Men 3. And as i said this is just SOME of the planned new sequels.

And now a list of rumored hollywood sequels;
Ace Ventura 3, Alien 5, Austin Powers 4, Beverly Hills Cop 4, The Bodyguard 2, The Fast and the Furious 3+4, Finding Nemo 2 (what is he gone again?), How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days 2, I, Robot 2, Mrs. Doubtfire 2, Pink Panther 2, Pulp Fiction 2, Sahara 2 and Speed 3. And This list also goes on an on!

Ok, i'll admit it. I'm propably gonna watch allot of these films myself, but one thing's for sure i'm not gonna waste my money on a theater ticket or even renting them in my local blockbuster.

How about some new, original & interesting ideas! Just for a change...

Reasons to start a Blog?

2006-09-08T11:03:00.001+02:00

Welcome to my new Blog! I have thought about getting a Blog for a long time and now I finally decided to do it. This is going to be an experiment for me, as I do not know whether I’m gonna’ enjoy it in the long run or not, or whether anyone is actually gonna have ant interest in it. I guess we’ll find out about that in due time. As I said I thought about it some time and wrote a couple of reasons to do it down so here is what I came up with. Maybe I’ll ad some more later on.

1) I have a VERY BAD memory, so it want to remember my experiences by writing them down.

2) I know allot of people from other parts of the world (mainly exchange students) whom I really want to keep contact with

3) I’ve always wanted to write, either as a journalist, author or musician

4) I have a lot of spare time

5) And it seems like a better way of using time than on computer games…

6) I am a very confused person! So I could always make use of advice on various stuff going on in my life

7) I come across much (too me) interesting stuff both on the net and everywhere else that I want to share with other people

8) I guess writing is good exercise for the brain.